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Abandon the first-line life and return to the village to "build a villa", get rid of mental internal friction, and live in the dream room

2022-12-05 02:48:17 [floor]
Abandon the first-line life and return to the village to "build a villa", get rid of mental internal friction, and live in the dream room

If you find it troublesome, you can also immediately ▼▼▼get 3 sets of exclusive design schemes for reference by clicking on the picture below▼▼▼ (A small program has been added here, please go to the Toutiao client to view) "Escape from Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen" has been It is a hot topic on social platforms. In the past ten years, many young people have begun to face a choice: whether to stay in a big city, fight for a set of sky-high prices, and become a front-line "new immigrant"? Or go back to your familiar hometown, build a big villa, and be a leisurely "aboriginal"? h▲ Real photos of the interior of Jinger's villa Today, we invited @ Jinger, a colleague from the marketing department of the original Rabbit Factory, to tell us the story of how she got rid of internal mental stress and went home to build a "villa".

Leaving "Shenzhen" is inevitable

1. I had a hunch that I would leave Shenzhen▲Jinger's graduation photo Er told us: "Actually, I always knew that I would not stay in Shenzhen for a long time. I am the only child in the family, and my parents are getting older and older, so naturally they need my company and care." It is a little nervous to have a sum of money to buy a house in a first-tier or new first-tier city, but it is enough to build a "big villa" new house in the village. This idea sowed the seeds in her heart. After all, it was a multi-purpose thing: on the one hand, it could improve the living environment of the elderly; on the other hand, Jinger also had her own intentions. In March of the same year, there was an opportunity to be transferred to Chengdu in the rabbit factory. Jinger took the opportunity of "Dongfeng" to return to Chengdu, which is closer to home. Unlike some voices on the Internet who want to escape from the "inner volume" and go home and "lie down", Jinger doesn't think she has escaped from Shenzhen. The choice that the family is responsible for is also the best choice at that time. 2. The budget is 350,000 bricks and tiles to build a "villa" ▲The construction process of the red brick house At the beginning of 2020, Jinger began to discuss with her family about building a house. But she was still working in Shenzhen at the time, so she had a designer background and drew construction drawings and floor plans by herself, and her parents helped her find a local construction team to complete the construction. According to the drawings, the "self-built house" of Jinger's house has 2 floors and an area of ​​about 200 square meters. The budget is not very large, and I want to complete it within 350,000 (including main body renovation and whole house decoration). You must know that this number is difficult to renovate a 200-square-meter house in Shenzhen, but it is enough for Jinger's grandparents, parents, and mother to live more comfortably in her hometown. Since she designed the house by herself and has a better understanding of the living habits of her family, Jinger spent a lot of time choosing the layout and decoration style of the house. In her plan, the first floor is reserved for grandparents with inconvenient legs, and the second floor is reserved for parents (and a small room for themselves). 3. The decoration of acquaintances did not follow the drawings. The process was not easy, but in the end, the pre-preparation for the large villa was completed without any difficulties. Except for the installation of floor-to-ceiling windows for the "villa", there were basically no particularly difficult design requirements. Even so, there are still "communication problems" in the process of building the house! "There are many contractors specializing in one-family construction, but my budget is relatively small, so I asked my parents to find acquaintances to help me buy and do construction. The workers are not very professional, and they are still a bit pitiful." Jinger returned in March When I went to the house to see the scene, I found that the kitchen was poured in place, and there was no smoke exhaust pipe. "The local workers operate according to their own experience, and do not operate according to the drawings. My parents don't understand it very well, so it took a lot of time to rectify later." After stumbling, Jinger's house was completed from the drawing to the completion. It took nearly 7 months, and the results were not bad. Although the budget was not unexpectedly overrun, it did not exceed a lot. It cost about 400,000 before and after. ▲Jinger's family's large expenditures, bookkeeping and self-built house precautions: 1. Even for self-built houses in rural areas, it is recommended to find a professional decoration team, otherwise there will be cases where workers do not follow the drawings. 2. Even if you have design experience, you need to submit the drawings and construction drawings to professional personnel for review to ensure structural safety. 3. The foundation needs to be determined according to the condition of the soil layer. Usually, the self-built rural houses with less than 5 floors use the strip foundation, and the pile foundation and the raft foundation should be used for the bad land. ▼▼▼10 seconds to quickly get the decoration price! Take a look at how much it costs to renovate your home▼▼▼ (the applet has been added here, please go to today's headline client to view)

person In Chengdu, keep a distance from the super first-tier cities

▲The built house is surrounded by lush fields outside the window. Currently, Jinger and her husband live in Chengdu. Tuguliang also asked some common concerns: 1. Is there a big gap in salary between Chengdu and Shenzhen? - Jinger: Although it is a new first-tier city, the gap between the employment environment and "Shenzhen" is not as big as imagined, and the cost of living and living is lower than Shenzhen. 2. You have lived in both cities, do you think the life experience is very different? -Jinger: I think the biggest difference from Shenzhen is the world of people. In contrast, when working in Shenzhen, you don't have to think too much about "relationships", and everyone has a sense of purpose. Although left. But I really like Shenzhen, and I will go back when I have the chance. I went back two months ago (laughs). 3. Do you regret making this decision? - Jinger: First of all, I am very fortunate to go back home to build a house. Although most of the houses are inhabited by my parents and grandparents, I only go back occasionally on weekends. But if I bought a house in the city at that time, I would not be able to create a good living environment for my parents, and I would not be able to enjoy the decompression and release brought by the occasional return home. One thing to say, if there are other brothers and sisters at home, I should still be working hard in Shenzhen. 4. What is the biggest gain of returning to Chengdu? - Jinger: I got rid of the bottleneck period of my career, and I have less mental stress. Now I don't have to worry about these things anymore, and I am very relaxed mentally. Chengdu’s work and life are relatively leisurely, and you can eat, eat, play and play with friends after get off work. In Shenzhen, you rarely get off work on time. 5. Talk about your "big villa"! What do you think is the biggest highlight? - Jinger: Dwarf oil, my house is not a "big villa". The biggest highlight is that I installed a floor-to-ceiling window, and when I open the curtains, I can see the fields. In addition, many private houses on our side will design a "chess and card room" if they ask someone to help at the counter. I don't understand. So I didn't do this function when I drew the design myself. In the interview, Tuguliang also found that Jinger is not a member of the "escape" from Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, but has maintained a certain distance from super first-tier cities within the scope of her ability. If she had chosen to pay the down payment for urban commercial housing with not much or not at that time, she would have to take out a housing loan now, and the living environment of the elderly would not be improved, and her life would not be as comfortable as it is now. If you find it troublesome, you can ▼▼▼ immediately receive 3 sets of exclusive design schemes as a reference ▼▼▼ (the applet has been added here, please go to the Toutiao client to view it)

Will you choose to leave Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen?

Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou, Shenzhen and other first-tier cities, the biggest criticism is that housing prices remain high, prices and living pressures continue to increase. Many people who return to their hometowns, in addition to thinking about "job", "buying a house" and "marriage", also measure the distance from their family members and their own life feelings. Sometimes choosing to stay may choose to endure more pressure, just like a Shenzhen owner whom Tuguliang met last week. She has worked in Shenzhen for 15 years. The reason is simple: "I just can't stand the environment where there are acquaintances everywhere. When I go back, I'm either playing mahjong or messing around. Neighbors talk like quarrels, and some people wear pajamas and slippers at work." When asked about the pressure of life in the city, she thought for a long time, Some said helplessly: "There must be pressure, but I really don't want to go home."

(Responsible editor:cleaning)

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